1001 ways to get over your ex ?

helo, helo, everyone! 

today i am going to talk about how to get over your ex

 so are you ready ???

i believe that each of us has had at least one heartbreak

so do i (pls ew)

to be honest, theres no specific way to forget someone we love and adore.

but life must go on, right ?

so we have to get over them ! (PLS MOVE ON EVERYONE)

FIRST OF ALL, YOU SHOULD ENJOY WHAT YOU DO !!

(this is so important!! if you dont then youll keep thinking about them)

sweetheart, you only live once. 

go explore new things, try something new and be confident .

SECOND, YOU SHOULD THINK THAT IT IS THEIR LOSS !!

babe, you are perfect just the way you are!!

so the only way to make them regret it is by proving that youre better off without them 

it is normal to blame ourselves for what happened.

but you gotta live, so improve yourself!

LAST BUT NOT LEAST, YOU HAVE TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST

WHY??

helo lovers, how could we love someone when we dont even love ourselves?

always priorities yourself;prioritise yourself over them.

then youll understand how valueable you are .

PLEASE GET OVER THEM!! 

YOULL BE FINE, MAYBE NOW YOUR JOURNEY IT IS NOT ABOUT LOVE,

IT IS ABOUT FINDING YOUR OWN SELF.

HAVE FUN EVERYONE , YOLO PEACE OUT

CHOICES ITU PILIHAN

 

Helo, helo, everyone!

Welcome back, it’s me, Nazira, with her unsaid thought.

 

This week, we will discuss "pilihan," also known as "choices".

Do you ever realise that in our lives we have so many choices? Yes, we have like more than hundred choices a day.

Kita kena pilih nak pakai baju apa? nak makan apa? nak pergi mana? nak gerak pukul berapa? Yes, ITU SEMUA PILIHAN. sedar tak?

kalau nak cerita pasal pilihan banyak sangat benda yang boleh kaitkan dengan diri kita.

But today, I'm just going to talk secara keseluruhan. In our lives, we have to decide each day what to do. It is what we called "choices." Sometimes we don’t even realise that we’ve already made a choice. Now, I want you to start looking at yourself and asking yourself, 

"Have you made your choice today?"

Every time I need to choose something, I get scared because I don't know what will happen to me if I make that choice. I think all of us get scared whenever we have multiple options.  However, I want you to remember this. In our lives, there’s no such thing as a wrong choice, even if you think that you've made a bad decision. It is not sweetheart. It is part of learning. Don't be scared to make a choice.

One thing you have to remember is to never think of yourself as an option. You are more than that. So always BE PROUD of yourself and BE BRAVE with your choices. If you've already made up your mind to walk away, then walk away. because you always have PILIHAN.

babah

 olla, welcome to my blog again! :p

another week another random thought with me 

so bear with me okie ><

for this week, kita takde specific theme. and im not sure nak cakap pasal apa.

but i think i wanna share with you guys how SPECIAL my dad is.

mama pernah cerita yang my name sebenarnya plan nak letak as nadhirah tapi babah salah dengar masa nak pergi daftar so jadi NAZIRA.

masa first time, i dengar i gelak gelak la jugak how can a father salah letak nama anak kan ? tapi i rasa special jugak sebab my dad decide sendiri je my name. 

and i dont even remember yang babah pernah marah saya. tapi i know whenever mama marah, i would run to babah, mengadu and menangis.  

YES I AM FOREVER DADDY’S GIRL.

there’s one time, mama marah and i dont even dare to go out from my room.  suddenly, babah datang and hugged me. (+ babah bawak makan kat luar supaya saya stop nangis hihi)

yes my dad is my knight shining amor <3 

since i was a little girl, babah would say that he’s super proud with me even it is just a small achievement. masa first time, i belajar naik basikal without my training wheels. babah sorak and run to me asap bila nampak saya jatuh.  the day when i needed to go to boarding school, babah called me every single day just to make sure i was okay.  he even ulang alik klang to serting setiap minggu for 2 years sebab i homesick. when spm result was announced, i feel bad because i didnt get straight a’s. tapi babah still cakap yang dia proud dengan saya and treat me with my favourite drink.  nampak random and simple tapi i would remember that day sampai bila bila. and i would always remember the day when i cried so hard, the day that my heart was broken.  i will always remember apa babah cakap to me. 

he said that i will always be his baby tak kisahlah umur waktu 20 years old or 35 years old. i will always be his baby girl and he will protect me. 

“babah, taknak nampak awak nangis lagi macam ni”.

look, how special my dad is. no one could ever replace you, babah.

you will always be my first boyfriend 🤍

this is such a random thought that i wish my dad would read it.

babah, 

youve no idea how special you are.

i rarely tell you that i love you,

but im so thankful for having you as my dad.

i will choose you again and again.

youre the best and the coolest dad! :)

thank you for loving me and protect me, babah.

inilah boyfriend saya :p

mula or beginning

mula or beginning?

 

hi, it’s me im the problem it’s me -ts22

welcome to my blog peeps( unsaid thoughts with me :p )

so for today, i am going to talk about MULA .

there’s a lot of things yang kita boleh cakap tentang mula, but this topic made me realise one thing.

do you know that one day, we have 86400 seconds = 1440 minutes = 24 hours.

yep, in 1 day we've made tons of mistakes and we dont even realize it because we’re too busy think about our past mistakes.

as i said, we have times so dont  worry about your mistake from yesterday  or the past year. you’ve got 24 hours to START a change.  it is okay to feel bad and to be sad but you have to START changing.

this whole thing makes me recall this one incident happened to me back in january.  i vividly remembered the day i felt like everything was bad and i dont want to START my day because i thought that everyday is a bad day for me.

but one day, my friends and i decided to take some fresh air ( jalan jalan petang) around college and i start to feel alive again.

i told them about it, and they said “ tak kisah lah if kau rasa the whole world is collapsing, tapi kau kena tahu yang kau sendiri kena MULA”.

at first, i dont even understand kenapa aku yang kena MULA tapi lama kelamaan i know the reasons.  MULA ni tak kisah apa pun, either it is MULA untuk bangun pagi or MULA nak belajar perkara baru or MULA to fall in love.

semua benda kita kena MULAKAN sebab there’s no ending without the BEGINNING. 

you can start your day at 10 in the morning or at 3 pm. it doesn’t matter if you wakeup late and MULA your day a bit later than everyone else.

your life, your decision.  i used to think that if my day wasn’t good in the morning, i had a bad PERMULAAN of the day and my whole day is going to be awful.

but growing up makes me realize, it is not going to be awful. it is just a process.

 instead of feeling bad and giving up for the whole day, i STARTED to change my perspective. 

NOW IT IS YOUR TURN TO START AND MULA YOUR DAY ;p